letting go of the past...
Wednesday, January 6, 2010 @ 2:12 AM
To let go of the past isn't to just forget, not to think about, or ignore. It doesn't leave feelings of anger, jealousy, or regret. Letting go of the past isn't about winning or losing. It's not about pride and it's not about how you appear, and it's not obsessing or dwelling on the past. Letting go of the past isn't blocking memories or thinking back at the harsh times, and doesn't leave emptiness, hurt, or sadness. It's not about giving in or giving up. Letting go of the past isn't about loss and it's not about defeat. To let go of the past is to cherish the memories, to overcome and move on. It is having an open mind in confidence for the future. Letting go of the past is learning, experiencing and growing. To let go of the past is to be thankful for the experiences that made you laugh, made you cry, and made you grow. It's about all that you have, all that you had, and all that you will soon gain. Letting go of the past is having the courage to accept change, and the strength to keep moving. Letting go of the past is growing up. It is realizing that the heart can sometimes be the most potent remedy. To let go of the past is to open a door, to clear a path and set yourself free from hell.